Law #2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends — Learn How to Use Enemies(The real lesson: reliability beats intimacy in power games.)
Most people think trust is simple: friends = safe, enemies = dangerous.
In corporate life, partnerships, and even social groups, it often flips. The people closest to you can get messy—emotionally invested, entitled, jealous, careless, or overly comfortable. And the people who don’t like you? They can be weirdly… consistent.
That’s the uncomfortable point behind Law #2 from The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene:
Law #2: Never Put Too Much Trust in Friends; Learn How to Use Enemies
This isn’t saying “don’t have friends.”
It’s saying: don’t confuse friendship with loyalty or competence when stakes are real.
Why friends can be risky when power is involved
Friends come with invisible baggage:
1) Comfort breeds sloppiness
Friends can take liberties:
miss deadlines because “you’ll understand”
speak too freely because “we’re close”
assume access because “we go way back”
2) Expectations create resentment
If you rise, a friend might feel:
I deserve more credit here
why them and not me?
they changed
That resentment often leaks out as subtle sabotage: passive resistance, gossip, “jokes,” or withholding help.
3) Friends blur boundaries
They may overstep, overshare, or make decisions emotionally—especially under pressure.
Result: you don’t get betrayed dramatically. You get undermined quietly.
Why “enemies” can be surprisingly useful
An enemy is rarely your friend—but they are often:
1) Predictable
They don’t pretend. You know where they stand. That clarity is valuable.
2) Motivated to prove themselves
If you give a rival a legitimate role with clear incentives, they may overdeliver to:
earn status
erase a past conflict
show they’re professional
3) Easier to manage with structure
A rival tends to respect:
rules
metrics
boundaries
written agreements
Friends often want exceptions. Rivals rarely do.
The modern interpretation (so you don’t become paranoid)
This law is not “trust no one.”
It’s:
Friends: great for emotional support, brainstorming, morale
High-stakes execution: choose reliability, not closeness
When money, promotion, reputation, or power is on the line, treat it like engineering:
Trust is earned through behavior + incentives + accountability.
How to apply Law #2 without becoming a snake
Here’s the clean playbook.
1) Separate friendship from mission-critical roles
If the task can damage your reputation if it fails, don’t assign it based on loyalty vibes.
Ask:
Have they delivered under stress?
Do they take feedback professionally?
Do they respect boundaries?
Do they keep things confidential?
If you don’t have strong evidence, keep them close socially—but don’t hand them leverage.
2) Put everything in structure (even with friends)
If you do work with friends:
define roles in writing
define what “done” means
set check-ins
keep accountability neutral
You’re protecting the friendship and the outcome.
3) “Use enemies” = convert rivals into aligned incentives
You’re not “using” them like a villain. You’re aligning incentives.
Ways to do it ethically:
give them ownership over a measurable piece of work
make their win depend on the team win
acknowledge competence (not affection)
keep boundaries clear
If they want to compete, let them compete against the problem, not against you.
4) Watch for the real danger signal: entitlement
The most dangerous “friend risk” is this sentence:
“After everything I’ve done for you…”
That’s emotional debt becoming leverage. When you hear it, tighten boundaries immediately.
5) Don’t manufacture enemies
This law isn’t advice to create conflict. Real enemies are costly.
The point is: when an enemy already exists, don’t assume they’re useless. In the right frame, they can be more dependable than a “friend” who feels entitled.
Ethics: power literacy vs manipulation
Law #2 can be applied cleanly:
choose reliable people for high-stakes tasks
structure relationships to prevent misunderstandings
convert rivalry into useful performance
Or it can be applied badly:
cynicism
exploitation
betrayal for sport
The smart version is pragmatic, not cruel.
Train Law #2 in real scenarios
Reading the law is one thing. Recognizing it in your meetings, partnerships, and social dynamics is another.
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Final thought
Friends can be loyal—and enemies can stay enemies.
But when stakes rise, don’t bet your outcomes on closeness. Bet them on character, incentives, and structure.
Office power dynamics: professional distance, clear boundaries, and trust built on results.